Have to blog to get this off my chest....
This is going to be random and incoherent, but i have to.
Feeling glum now, because of some audience's comment on a newspaper that i'm not 可爱at all and always wear the same clothes(in reference to "i love sunday") and i'm 不难不†女。
Learnt that i get affected by such stupid comment very easily and perhaps am not suited to be in this industry because its a given you get alot of shit here and if you can't take it then you're out.
Hmmm.
We're not rich enough to always buy different' clothes for every different event that we appear in although we do our best. And perhaps in my case, I'm more boring, i'm always wearing the same old stuff... and that's because i feel comfortable in it and feel confident in it.
I don't feel confident in a dress, or some kind of aparrel that the so called woman of society are mostly found in. So irritating, i almost blame woman in society for all wearing the same kinda thing and making it an unseen rule that girls must wear dresses and girls must act in a way that is girly.
Argh.
the term 不男不女 is so awful !!!!!!
How would your mum feel if someone said that about you... guy or girl.
Am so sick and tired of such comments.
Must convince self that these people are entitled to own thoughts. Must convince self that these people are entitled to own thoughts. Must convince self that I am still who I am. Must convince self to stay calm in situations like this.
I feel a bit like bridget jones. Struggling between being herself and happy, and being someone she's not and happy because people are happy. Hmmm.
15 comments:
humph, i can feel exactly how u feel. take it easy.. thats their comments. we cant stop them from saying things they like. we wear what we like.. we dont have to follow what others wear.. we are who we are. who cares? though there's a saying says "only accepting others comment will make u a better person.." but some comments cannot be taken at all. its so ridiculous. so long as we feel comfortable in wearing then whats wrong? sigh, i have never tot that someone would actually use such an awful word describing people. sigh.. only girls that wear dress and must behave till super girly then is defined as girl meh. everybody have their own way of dressing.
dont be too much affected by such comments. you are still who you are. dont have to take it so seriously by such comments. different people have different views. u are cute can! ignore them bah=D
stay happy=D
'I Love Sunday' anyhow cut the parts one. You could be wearing a purple tshirt, then a white shirt at the very next second. Think your 2 days of recordings are anyhow mixed and made into a few episodes? So it's like, you're wearing the same 2 sets of clothings for that few episodes. Not your fault lor!
And yes, you gotta learn to deal with whatever comments thrown to you. Takes time.
Pray and Trust yourself to judge, if you think that those comments help, then let them help to make a better you! If not, read and throw them away!
THROW THROW THROW!
hello there, how have you been lately? looks really busy from what i see from your blog.
and hey, don't be bothered by those useless comments on the newspapers, some people just like to bitch. and though i get easily affected by other people's insensitive comments at times as well, i guess we must learn how to "close one eye" and ignore them at times cos well, we must accept that we can't please everyone! so, cheer up ok!! (:
and anyways, who cares about what you wear and stuff? what's more important is that you can sing really well and you have a style of your own! just be comfortable with the person you are and stay confident. jiayou!!
love, "dao-gu"
hmm. diya, can understand how you feels. what we can do now just dun care abt it. knows what is right to do, and always feel comfortable and easy of what you are wearing can le.
in this industry there will always out of some ppl like to give this
kind bad comments. girls also can wear jeans/pants wad, not girls jiu shi must wear skirt/dress ma.
just do what you think is right to do, dun take those bad comments to heart. do take care of yourself hor :)
Hey, i can understand how u feel. There will always b ppl hoo like or dislike us, n we cant do anything to stop them.
Their comments r really mean, but i guess the only thing u can do is juz to ignore them.
There r still ppl, like us, hoo like u, so look on the bright side! =)
To us, u r very cute, n we accept the way u r, dats y we support u ya! So wat if those hoo dislike u, find u nt cute or anything, juz dun care abt them!
If they dislike u, y do they bother abt wat u wear? In 'I love Sunday', its becoz u went for two recordings which turned out to b four episodes, dats y u r seen to b in the same clothes.
Its nt like u r very rich or something, dat u hav to change your preferences juz to suit their liking.
Dun bother abt the 'bu nan bu nv' thing, u r wat u r. if u doubt yourself, it means u r agreeing to wat they said k.
Its nt abt saying out dat u r nt bothered, wats most impt is dat u have the belief in yourself.
Alritey, dun b hurt over these mean ppl k? Cheer up, we r here to support u. God is there for u. Jia you! =)
Love,
Pammie~
hi diya,
dun be sad.. :) just take it at nothing happen..
chengying
and yah.. cheer up girl...
well, u actually dun have to bother about wat others comment..
毕竟，人是为了自己而活，不是为了别人而活的。。 别人要怎么讲，就让他讲，毕竟，你也不能控制对方的想法和嘴巴。。 只要自己活得愉快，活得快乐，就好了。。
So dun get too affected by this kinda stupid comment.. Jus be who u are now.. And u dun needa change urself jus to please others.. We jus like the way u are now.. So,continue to jiayou!! Take care!! Cheer up!! =)
Jiayou arh!!
cheers,
Ivon =)
Aihh.. Diya.. i understand how u feel..
cuz i was once facing this kinda problem..
i dun lik to dressed up myself..
unfortunately.. i change myself bcuz i dun1 ppl 2 say bout me..
but.. it was real hard.. n i ended up the same old ME again.. haha..
jz wear anything u lik..
every1 have different point of view..
dont force urself.. dun feel pressure..
they r jz talking bad bout u cuz they dun appreciate 4 who u r..
every1 have their own style..
dun affected by those comment..
they dun c the cute side of u..
u r absolutely cute.. they din realise only..
take care.. feel sad to know tht u r nt feeling gd..
diya! dun be affected by thoose comment la..
we also cannot stop them from saying! jux let them be.. i know how u feel.. be humble to criticisim! alright, forget abt it ! start a new day wif a fresh mind! k .. u 're cute so ,jux dun care wat they say!
STAY HAPPY, cheer up DIYA!!!
yes,we can noe how u feel it.. hmm.. newspapers always anyhow write things de..no matter positive or negative things they will jus dump in the newspaper..so dun get affected by these stupid comments.. they dun think how the person feels when the person reads it! argh!! u r cute de lohx! dun be sad! cheer up!!!no matter wad happens,be happy =)although is difficult but jiayou to bring out the smile=)!!cheer up!
you ARE cute,dont worry about the comments,people who are nice(like you!100% confirm la,you're damn nice:D)are bound to be disliked by some people .so be confident!and be yourself=)
diya,rock on
Hi Diya,
Entertainment Industry is like that. You have to learn to take it if you think that this career is what you want.
However, just be yourself. There's no need to change bcos of what audiences comment. There are so many audiences out there and you can't simply change bcos of theirs comment. How much you change?
This is your style (风格). Stick to it if you think by dressing so you will feel comfortable and confident.
Though I don't consider myself as your big fan, but I will support you. Keep it up. Wish you all the best and stay happy always.
Jae
it's alright. the most important thing is that u know u 是女不男就好了
:)
it's very common that such comments are made to public figures. taking for instance, ella from SHE. when she just embarked on her journey in the music industry, she received all kinds of remarks.
she has still make it so far. therefore, dun bother so much about their comments on you. so long as u feel comfortable and ur fans love you, that's already more than enough.
take care and jiayou!!
:)
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